Or simply go there with the intention of connecting and conversing with someone.
Tell them about the best part of the day you just spent with them.Buy them a small chocolate (but not if they’re on a diet.Acknowledge and respect their feelings even if you feel they are not accurate / appropriate.Bring them Ibruprofen for their headache.Listen to them carefully without interrupting.Tell them how wonderful they are and how happy you are to have them in your life.Tell them how much you appreciate them (or at least one thing about them you appreciate). When my partner had surgery and I felt stretched very thin, the frozen meals that our loved ones had brought over made such a difference. I could stay there in case the child woke up, but almost always I simply read my book on the couch and let the parents have a well-deserved break to go get a glass of wine. I have done this several times for my neighbors after the toddler went to bed.
To new parents especially, this can mean the world.
Surprise them with an unexpected visit or phone call.
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